This is a crazy time — almost surreal in some ways. Between the impact of the pandemic, and the civil protests throughout the world, many of us are struggling. Struggling to understand. To know. To make sense of it. To grasp it all. And to figure it all out. And, it’s hard. Our emotions are […]

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Here’s What I Know: It’s okay to be confused. It’s okay to feel unprepared. And uncomfortable. Perhaps afraid. Maybe even second-guessing yourself. But not okay to feel unworthy. Undesirable. Undeserving. Unloved. And, underestimated. Never let anyone make you feel “Un-Anything.” Because you are more than that. And you deserve more than that. If they do, […]

Here’s What I Know: So look… Stop falling for the bullsh**. Stop accepting the bullsh**. You are worth so much more than that. So stop accepting it. Start trusting and believing that you own the power of change. And start to change it. Change how you think first. So you can change how you behave […]

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Oh my! It’s been a little while since I updated my blog but I absolutely had to share this with you! What a dream come true! On September 10th, 2015 I was blessed to serve as a speaker at the Convocation Ceremony of Daemen College (my alma mater)! It was an honor and I was […]

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Here’s What I Know: Some people spend their entire lives in search of their purpose. Some people get lost in their struggle for significance. And others wallow in a pond of confusion about the direction that their life should be headed in. It can be so painful when you know that you are not doing […]

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You are a Liar! A Cheat! A Thief! Yes, you are. Why? You are a Liar because you tell yourself that you are going to work hard to accomplish your next dream, and you don’t. You convince yourself that you don’t have enough time to get it done. And that you don’t allow yourself to […]

The inspirational messages on my blog are designed to empower you to make choices that will lead you towards emotional prosperity because you deserve to be happy. The B.E.L.I.E.V.E. system that I created teaches you how to begin to “Get Over It” and steps to incorporate into your daily life and be able to think […]

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  Being a Leader is not just what I do. It’s a part of who I am. You see, I believe that Leadership comes from within—it comes from living in your purpose, manifesting your destiny and understanding that resiliency is the foundation of your determination. It is the recognition that you must first “work a […]

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Today I did a scope  that I named “Let your FAITH be STRONGER than your FEAR.”  I focused on the fact that so many of us don’t do the things that we want and need to do because we are afraid…My main point was that if you really have FAITH and you Trust and Believe then […]

Soooo many of us get “stuck” trying to write about things that have hurt us in the past.  We want to write about and share our experiences with others but somehow can’t seem to find the words to help us do it… In this video I share the 4 main tips that I use that […]

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Yesterday I went to a funeral, but I didn’t shed any tears, and I wasn’t saddened about my loss. When I left, I felt more “free,” more fulfilled and more faithful than I have in many years. You see, at this funeral I didn’t bury a loved one…I buried the toxins that were poisoning my […]

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Sometimes we have dreams about doing things but we are just not sure how to start so we don’t “work a dream to live a dream.” I learned from my business mentor that a “confused mind does nothing.”  Knowing this, I always try to teach others that they need clarity in their lives before they […]

  The Resilient Woman The Resilient Woman never allows the trials and tribulations of today weigh her down because she knows that tomorrow is just a day away. She understands that despite and in spite of anything that happens today, tomorrow is just one day away. The Resilient Woman knows to not just consult with […]