Creating life lesson plans that help shape our lives helps us to realize what we need to do in order get what we want.  We also learn that if things do not fit the scheme we have created, we must end it.  I like to compare it to a teacher creating lesson plans for the students. Typically there are specific behavioral objectives/goals presented and then the teacher designs activities to reach those goals.  The teacher attempts to adhere to the activities because all of them serve a purpose, and the teacher knows that if it does not serve a purpose, then they do not need it.

Hmmmm…

What if we applied this same philosophy to things and people in our lives? What if we created strategies and activities that were specifically aligned with our goals?  What if we diminished those factors that prohibited us from reaching our dreams?  Supposed we learned how to live with Lupus so that we could achieve our dreams?

Hmmmm…

To accomplish this, you have to learn how to release those things that do not serve a purpose.  You have to learn how to END the relationships and situations that are not aligned with your dreams. Using the main tenets of my BELIEVE system helps you to determine what needs to be ended in your life so you can achieve your happiness regardless of whatever you have been through in your life.

Learning how to end the things that cause you pain.

Learning how to end the things that are not good for you.

Learning how to figure out what is good for you.

Learning how to determine what you don’t need and what doesn’t work for you.

Learning how to end the toxic relationships in your life.

Learning how to end the toxic feelings you have inside of you.

Learning how to end things that you should have never started.

Learning how to BEGIN with the END in mind.

This is just the beginning of the transformation of your thought process. It is life transforming, and it requires a paradigm shift in the way you have been approaching your life.  It requires you to take a look at the life that you are leading and how you are leading it. It demands that you no longer put Band-Aids on gunshot wounds and instead, learn how to do the surgery so you can live an enriched and fulfilled life despite your heartache and pain.

I know you can travel to your destiny of happiness, and I know you can do this because you are a warrior and a survivor.  You have to tools you need to live in your purpose, persist in your passion and prepare for prosperity.  I believe in YOU, and I know that you can Get Over It! You just have to trust and BELIEVE.

With Love,

Dr. Adair

 

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