This is a crazy time — almost surreal in some ways. Between the impact of the pandemic, and the civil protests throughout the world, many of us are struggling. Struggling to understand. To know. To make sense of it. To grasp it all. And to figure it all out. And, it’s hard. Our emotions are […]

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Here’s What I Know: It’s okay to be confused. It’s okay to feel unprepared. And uncomfortable. Perhaps afraid. Maybe even second-guessing yourself. But not okay to feel unworthy. Undesirable. Undeserving. Unloved. And, underestimated. Never let anyone make you feel “Un-Anything.” Because you are more than that. And you deserve more than that. If they do, […]

Here’s What I Know: So look… Stop falling for the bullsh**. Stop accepting the bullsh**. You are worth so much more than that. So stop accepting it. Start trusting and believing that you own the power of change. And start to change it. Change how you think first. So you can change how you behave […]

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So tell me, what have you been “settling” for in your life? Is it your job? Your career? Money? A relationship? Your dreams? Hmmmmm….. We are all guilty of “settling” at some point in our lives and I think we actually settle for something every day. The questions become “What is it?” and “How long […]

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  There have been some things in my life that I probably should have just walked away from. Certain situations, certain people, and certain things. But I made that conscientious decision to stay. Stay to fight for it. Stay to believe in it. Stay to trust in it. And stay because I just felt “I […]

Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are a Liar, a Cheat, and a Thief! Yes, you are. Why? You are a Liar because you tell yourself that you are going to work hard to accomplish your next dream, and you don’t. You convince yourself that you don’t have enough time to get it done. And that you don’t understand the […]

This morning I decided at the last minute that I wanted to get my hair “done.” I wanted it to be shampooed and styled by a professional because they do such a better job than I can. Knowing that my “regular” stylist would be unavailable at the last minute, I decided to go to my […]

Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The other morning I awakened with a few thoughts on my mind so I decided to write about them.  I posted my thoughts on Facebook and the response was phenomenal and unexpected.  I received so many “likes/loves” as well as inbox/text/email messages from so many people. Hmmmmm….. Sooooo, I decided to share what I wrote with you […]

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You are probably asking “What does this have to do with believing in yourself and your dreams?”  Well, just as we use contraceptive methods to stop an unplanned pregnancy we need to create methods that stop us from birthing negativity in our lives and to control unhealthy thoughts and behavior. This is the “B” of […]

I was feeling a bit nostalgic last week when I found an old college ID in a drawer while searching for AAA batteries…It made me think back in time when I was full of dreams and praying for endless opportunities that would help make those dreams come true. I started thinking about how we just […]

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“How I became a 6x National Bestseller!” I have to share with you that I am asked about this at least twice a day. Many people email me, send inbox messages, and call me asking “how did you do it?” Typically I spend a few minutes giving them an overview because I honestly believe in […]

Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes we reach points in our lives when we feel trapped. We feel as though we have gone as far as we can go but we still are not happy. We want to go further, but we are just unsure about the direction we need to take. As though we are spinning in circles and […]

What would you tell your 16-year-old self? When I look at this picture of myself at 16 years old, I have to chuckle because I remember when the photo was taken.  I remember that it was at my first job working at a bakery on Church Ave. in Brooklyn. I would come directly after attending […]