This is a crazy time — almost surreal in some ways. Between the impact of the pandemic, and the civil protests throughout the world, many of us are struggling. Struggling to understand. To know. To make sense of it. To grasp it all. And to figure it all out. And, it’s hard. Our emotions are […]

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Here’s What I Know: It’s okay to be confused. It’s okay to feel unprepared. And uncomfortable. Perhaps afraid. Maybe even second-guessing yourself. But not okay to feel unworthy. Undesirable. Undeserving. Unloved. And, underestimated. Never let anyone make you feel “Un-Anything.” Because you are more than that. And you deserve more than that. If they do, […]

Here’s What I Know: So look… Stop falling for the bullsh**. Stop accepting the bullsh**. You are worth so much more than that. So stop accepting it. Start trusting and believing that you own the power of change. And start to change it. Change how you think first. So you can change how you behave […]

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Just sharing some thoughts that I’ve been having over the past few days about having a threesome! Y’all lookin’ at this post right now like…. 🙂 🙂 Let’s Have a Threesome! Want to do a threesome? Yup! A threesome with Me, Myself, and I. Let’s do it! Let’s focus on discovering who we really are […]

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This past weekend, millions of girlfriends flocked to the movie theaters to see the blockbuster film “Girls Trip.”  It was a much-anticipated movie that chronicled the lives of four black women who had been friends for years and in many ways, it was a symbolization of another element of “Black Girl Magic.”  We are mystical […]

Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes we look too hard to “find ourselves” when we were never really lost in the first place. We search for our inner beings, Our thoughts. Our voices… And our feelings. But all the while they haven’t really been anywhere at all. They’ve just been tucked under layers of doubt, confusion, hurt, disappointment, bewilderment, disillusion, […]

I was blessed and fortunate enough to participate in an amazing interview that was published here.   ihearthatgirl.com is a premier website for black women and seeks to empower, inspire, educate and motivate readers to make positive changes in their lives… Check out my in-depth interview here:  http://www.ihearthatgirl.com/get-over-it/ Let me know what you think! With Love, […]

Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Creating life lesson plans that help shape our lives helps us to realize what we need to do in order get what we want.  We also learn that if things do not fit the scheme we have created, we must end it.  I like to compare it to a teacher creating lesson plans for the […]

Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

  There have been some things in my life that I probably should have just walked away from. Certain situations, certain people, and certain things. But I made that conscientious decision to stay. Stay to fight for it. Stay to believe in it. Stay to trust in it. And stay because I just felt “I […]

You are a Liar, a Cheat, and a Thief! Yes, you are. Why? You are a Liar because you tell yourself that you are going to work hard to accomplish your next dream, and you don’t. You convince yourself that you don’t have enough time to get it done. And that you don’t understand the […]

Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The other morning I awakened with a few thoughts on my mind so I decided to write about them.  I posted my thoughts on Facebook and the response was phenomenal and unexpected.  I received so many “likes/loves” as well as inbox/text/email messages from so many people. Hmmmmm….. Sooooo, I decided to share what I wrote with you […]