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Here’s What I Know: So look… Stop falling for the bullsh**. Stop accepting the bullsh**. You are worth so much more than that. So stop accepting it. Start trusting and believing that you own the power of change. And start to change it. Change how you think first. So you can change how you behave […]

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February 24, 2020

Stop the Bullsh**!

As a lil’ girl growing up in Brooklyn during the ’70s, we used to play a lot of “street” games. There weren’t many parks near my block so we would just play as hard as we could on the sidewalks and in the street when no cars were passing by. This was our way of […]

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August 27, 2019

Stop Playin’ with Me!

I originally wrote most of this over a year ago after seeing the blockbuster film, “Girls Trip.” It was a much-anticipated movie that chronicled the lives of four black women who had been friends for years and in many ways, it was a symbolization of another element of “Black Girl Magic.” We are mystical and […]

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September 17, 2018

6 “White Girl” Tips for Creating Amazing & Powerful Friendships…

I’m Having a Threesome! Want to do a threesome? Yup! A threesome with Me, Myself and I. Let’s do it! Let’s focus on discovering who we really are and what we really need to be happy. Let’s run our fingers through the texture of our lives to determine if it’s the right “feel.” Let’s our […]

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April 25, 2018

I’m Having a Threesome!

Sometimes when you know that God has a specific plan just for you, but you can’t figure it out right now, it’s hard to remain positive. You want answers. And you want them right now. This is the part where you have to lean on those triple shields of Grace, Faith, and Mercy to guide […]

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March 13, 2018

It just didn’t work out…

As we begin the New Year so many of us create resolutions of “change.” We want to change our lives, our goals, our dreams and our relationships with others. But in making those changes, it first requires us to make changes within ourselves, and that can be so hard because it requires a higher level […]

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January 10, 2018

Sorry No More…

This past weekend, millions of girlfriends flocked to the movie theaters to see the blockbuster film “Girls Trip.”  It was a much-anticipated movie that chronicled the lives of four black women who had been friends for years and in many ways, it was a symbolization of another element of “Black Girl Magic.”  We are mystical […]

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July 25, 2017

5 Lessons Learned from “Girls Trip!”